We all know that our partners have their little quirks and pet peeves, but there’s a whole lot more to them than what you see on the surface. These are the things they might not want to tell you, but it would make a world of difference if they did. I’ve done some research and found out some facts about your partner that will blow your mind and will even help relieve some of those nagging problems that just won’t seem to go away. My partner is lazy and unmotivated. He’s usually the last to get up on the weekends and the first to get in the shower. I’ve found that there are a number of things that can make our partners lazy and unmotivated, from smoking a lot of weed, to drinking alcohol too much, heavy drug use, or even colds or simple flu’s. These facts are guaranteed to open up an entirely new perspective on your partner, so read these now! But beware: these things may come as a shock because no one really wants to think about how different we actually are when we’re dating someone new.
1. Smokers have a much higher chance of suffering from erectile dysfunction.
Smokers also have a much higher chance at having smaller penises than non-smokers. The chemicals in cigarettes really do take their toll on the body, and it doesn’t matter if you only smoke when you’re drinking, or if you only drink when you’re smoking, your partner will always feel the effects at some point.
2. Sugary drinks are the leading cause of diabetes and heart disease.
There’s a reason why a lot of people prefer to drink soda. One down side is that it leads to more weight gain and diabetes. Eating sugary foods is bad for your health for many reasons, but getting your sugar from soda can really hit you hard later on in life.
3. Alcoholism is a leading cause of death.
I know I’m a little late to this one, but alcohol is bad for you. One down side is that it leads to more weight gain and diabetes. Eating sugary foods is bad for your health for many reasons, but getting your sugar from soda can really hit you hard later on in life.
4. Emotional problems can arise after a long-term relationship.
Even couples in relationships for years will sometimes suffer from the same emotional problems that occur in newlyweds, or even after affairs or breakups of all types. This is just one of the many reasons why people should always be careful of who they get involved with.
5. It’s common to have a stronger sex drive in your teens and 20s.
This is something that happens to men and women, not just teenagers or young adults, but can also happen to people in their 60s. This could be due to hormones or just wanting to have sex more often, but it’s important for people to find out what this will do to their relationship later on down the road if they don’t discuss it before getting married.
6. You’re more likely to have multiple partners if you grow up in a liberal household.
About 90% of people who have been married before vow to stay with their current partner until they die, but while they are dating someone new, that number drops to about 60%. This is something that every couple should think about.
7. Your personality changes as you age.
As we get older, our personalities change for the better or for the worst, and it’s important for couples to discuss this because it can lead to some pretty big problems down the road.
8. You’re more likely to have affairs if you’re married and have kids.
It’s no secret that the older you get, the less time you have to spend with your partner and their kids. This can lead to a lack of attention or sometimes even jealousy, which can lead people to cheat, which is why this is one of the biggest reasons why people should be careful in who they get involved with because it can really, really hurt them later on down the road when they decide to leave their current partner for someone new.
9. People with high cholesterol live longer than those who don’t.
Being overweight is not just bad for your health now, but it can lead to many more health issues down the road. One major reason why people put on too much weight and don’t take care of themselves is because they think that they can live a long healthy life and don’t want to change anything, which is why it’s important for people to know what being in an unhealthy relationship could do to them later down the road.